I live in Japan. I'm also a tall, broad-shouldered black guy. People take one look at me and assume I'm massive downstairs. This makes it difficult to pick up girls as they assume I'm going to be too big for her. One FWB admitted to me that she was terrified going into our first hookup that I would destroy her.

I've been on a dry spell lately, and had zero luck on Tinder. So I decided to try my luck with an escort. Hiring an escort as a foreigner is Japan is an adventure itself. There are some somewhat legal shops that offer sex services, but most of these are strictly closed-door to foreigners. I tried using a site that freelancers advertise on, but the vast majority of them ignored me once they realized I was a large black male. I found one service online that seemed kinda sketchy but had agreed to offer me service. I go out there, the girl opens the door, takes one look at me and literally nopes the fuck out. Closes the door, locks it even.

So my giant monster bbc prevents me from getting laid. I can't even pay for it, lol.