While we were talking about our previous partners as we discussed our sexual histories (yes, bad move but it was late and we had been drinking). My flag flies proudly at 6.5x5, and even a year ago I would have felt so insecure and it would have eaten away at me. But now? I didn’t care because right now, she’s with me. Not the XXL guys.

Guys, if you’re feeling even a little insecure about your size just remember that your partner is with you! Not those other guys. Accept yourself and get rid of those nagging thoughts. They’re holding you back from better things.

unsure if this is the right spot to post, but I was really proud of the fact that this didn’t matter to me and I needed to share it somewhere *i also know I am technically above average but she was describing some much bigger fellas