When I say play with it, I mean in a nonsexual way. My ex-girlfriend would measure my dick with college ruled loose leaf filler paper. She would use the length or width side to see which one was a good approximation. She would also just take measuring tape for girth and length. Now this may not seem too bad, but this was done before we ever had sex. Even after we started having sex, she would measure my dick because from her stand point I had noticeable size changes based on my level of horniness. After her, I had one woman put her head next to my dick as another way to approximate my size. She jokingly said "this is a true head to head experience." This same person would hold it with two hands and just stare for a few seconds. She didn't do anything else, no rubbing, no squeezing just holding it with her hands. Do women sometimes do strange stuff with our dicks before having sex?