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To be totally transparent, I (24F) identify as a size queen. My ex had an above average penis, and I really enjoyed having sex with him, and had a difficult time having sex with guys who are smaller or average.
With that being said, do guys here ever worry about being fetishized / āsought outā for their penises? Iām Asian, so Iāve experienced plenty of guys only asking me out because of their racial preference, so Iām curious if the BDP community feels the same about their special appendage.
thatās very fair! iāve definitely hit people up on here due to their dick / appearance, but i think itās super weird and desperate to demand nudes š
very understandable, thatās kind of what i assumed haha
thatās a really good way to put it. context is vital!
yeah, but i feel like that also falls into a different fetishization. iāve even gotten messages from guys who want me to degrade them / send them photos of my ex partners.
yeah, the racial aspect is probably insane. iām sorry you had to witness women fetishizing men racially though ): thatās awful
thatās good about the attention! i guess iām more so curious if whether youād wonder if someone is only pursuing you due to that one singular aspect?
omg thatās so awful, and thank you for sharing ): thereās layers to how messed up that is.
iām bad with measurements, and as a habitual lurker, i always see āgirl inchesā being clowned upon, so i would rather not say haha
iām glad we have a good reputation in your mind :)
i mean, i donāt blame you. who wants people demanding stuff / being disrespectful in their DMs?
thatās reasonable. i guess we all just want someone to like us for who we are haha
thatās so true!! i guess it boils down to preference vs dehumanizing interest
yeah, i was honestly thinking about the racial stereotypes and how that definitely plays into āsize queenismā.
thatās reasonable. i think there needs to be some balance
iāve never heard of anyone seeking out only curved dicks, but iām sure that demographic exists somewhere haha
thatās true, and i guess itās good that at least some guys donāt mind it :)
iām sorry that happened ): sounds really awkward and disrespectful
yeah, i think the boundary definitely needs to be established once a relationship / anything past a hookup occurs. otherwise, it gets messy?
that actually sounds awful??? i think itās way more mainstream to hear this happening to women, but iām sad (but not shocked) to hear it happens the other way around tooā¦
thatās understandable, especially if youāre trying to see each other somewhat exclusively
but would you allow yourself to only be pursued due to your dick? or would you want it to be an added bonus?
thatās a unique way to tackle that problem haha
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thatās actually really sad to hear ): i think there needs to be a healthy balance of pride of oneās body with setting clear boundaries