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The title pretty much sums it up already. Basically, I was in the talking stage with a girl I really grew fond of overtime, as we shared many similar interests, had the same humour, and generally were on one wavelength.
During this I felt like I was in heaven, but now onto the part that made me write this post:
On one date we met up at my place, started hitting it off, and even though I did my best to make the experience as good as possible for her, she constantly complained about pain, and we decided to stop. We just went to sleep then while cuddling, and here I still thought we could maybe work things out regardless. She left and headed home, I went to shower, and when I came out I saw a message from her saying we should stop seeing eachother as "what we currently have wouldn't be sustainable in the long term"
Honestly up to this moment I felt a bit of pride with my size but now I feel legitimately cursed, I'd give everything to make things work out with her
I was married for 10 years to someone with whom I could not have sex. We are now both in relationships where we are sexually compatible with our partners, are mich healthier and happier people for it, and she's still my best friend.
It's better that it end like this than trying to force it for a decade, trust me.
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Not particularly I'm afraid. We spent 10 years making life work together despite the issues, it's just hard to go through that and not end up close to someone. Our partners are fine with it, nobody is less of a threat than "my best friend who I physically cannot have sex with"