So I love, love, LOVE anal sex and really I just love assplay in general. But one thing that bothers me is that when I'm penetrating a woman's anus my dick gets kind of numb. I want to feel her ass squeezing my cock just as intensely as she feels me, but the numbness detracts from the physicality of the act in a way that vaginal sex doesn't. Even so, I am incredibly turned on just knowing that she wants me inside her asshole and I have a great time anyway. It just takes more work to bust.

I am good at getting women ready to be penetrated -- which is not easy at 8 inches plus sizeable girth -- and they've always loved taking it in the ass. It's a very intimate thing for both of us but I feel it could be more intimate if I could feel a more intense sensation in my dick. What can I do to fix this and have really incredible anal sex?