Here is a mid 40s man and I want to sum up all my view about my bulge as I get older.

The main idea I have kept all along these years is that, we all associate our man-being and needs of course with our D.

So independent of its size, shape, etc,:

• in our 20s: either we want to show it off with gray pants or hide it tight.
• in our 30s: we discover that, as a man, we are more than our Ds and have many other skills or manly properties. So we do care about our bulge less than our other skills.
• in our 40s: our bulge is one of the features of our man-being. So it is normal to have a bulge as a man and if someone sees it, it is their problem.

My buds, in their 50s, do not care about their bulge. They say that comfort is much more important than their bulge.