Hey! So I’m a fairly well endowed man but also fairly shy so I don’t really get about a huge amount and have only started “sleeping about” since I was about 23 due to a long term relationship. I have found that during lots of hookups I seem to take a long time to get fully hard like I would in my previous relationship. This, in addition to being large and having a left hand curve can make things difficult in certain positions.

For example girls sometimes like to go on top because they can control how much they take and a lot of the time they sort of bounce on about half of my dick length. My curve and ‘squishiness’ can make it easy for my dick to get bent which I feel has emphasised my curve. Of course when I’m fully hard it’s fine but takes a while to get to that point.

Is there any good ways to get super hard quicker naturally and perhaps straighten out my dick? Likewise are there other positions that could be good for girls who don’t want to have their cervix destroyed?

Thanks!!