My flaccid bulge is like 8x smaller than the erect size, and in Sweden it’s winter most of the year so you also have the cold weather making it smaller.

There’s seemingly no classy way to verbally let a woman know in advance, and a lot of women have no idea how a big one looks like or feels since guys will lie about their size. But I really need a solution cus otherwise it’s wasting so much time dating and later finding out we’re incompatible.

I’ve seen people recommending photoshopping the bulge to look more accurate in dating profiles, as well as wearing that fake bulge thing in your pants, but those don’t sit well with me. Aren’t there any other solutions?

I’m mid twenties and straight btw.