Hello! So I don’t know where else to tell this story. For context I’m a gay guy.

I was talking to a guy and he ended up mentioning he was rather large. And that’s always been something I thought was exciting but like never told anybody IRL.

However, he was initially okay with me being small, but then as we got to talking he ended up telling me after a while that he wouldn’t want to hurt me with it so it wasn’t going to work out.

But we hadn’t ever gotten a chance to meet or even attempt it yet!

That being said I am a virgin, but it would be something I would 100% work with somebody on if it was difficult for me, if I really like him and he liked me it’s worth the work. But he said he just kinda wants somebody he can fit in with no effort.

Just feeing a little down, sorry if this came off more as a venting session. Just was sad because he was really nice and we had a bunch of similar interests, and yet one of the things I thought was amazing about him, made him not want to. :(