I'm 26M 6''5 and my dick is almost 8 inches long and and almost 6 inches in girth. Fat tip adds salt to injury. I have a pretty good sex life, but I don't like the fact i make women sore after sex for days. And sometimes my size causes tears, bruising and subsequently sometimes uti's. It stops me from having sex and leaves my partner in pain. And at the end I can not have an even deeper and more enjoyable intimicy with my partner. I always tend to respect and lend myself towards a woman's needs and go as hard or soft as she preffers, but I also have needs as a man. I only cum when I can let myself go with women and use all my size. Sometimes women don't like their cervix busted up (understadably) and since I worry and can't relax the end I just end up not cumming at all and It's either they get mad at me for it because they think I think they're ugly or they end up hating themselves because they think that they're ugly for me, because of me not ''wanting'' to cum. I take supplements to increase my load size (works perfectly) so sometimes they think all the pre cum I leak is me actually nutting so that saves me a bit, but still. Some get mad when I suggest lube to not hurt them because: ''you're saying my pussy is dry?''. They ask specificaly to go hard and deep. I do as hard as they like and at the end you can expect what happens. Maybe I need a different partner I can communicate better? Or maybe I need a woman that doesn't mind softer sex.