Here is some context:

I’m 8" hard, 5" flaccid with large low-hanging testicles, and wear lose boxer shorts because any other types of underwear is painfully uncomfortable.

No matter the type of pants (tight or large, high or low-waist, jeans or sweatpants), I have to have my shaft down one leg, otherwise I have to keep adjusting and it gets pretty annoying.

To add some complexity, because of a sports injury years ago, I frequently get spontaneous erections out of nowhere (which I manage to keep to semi most of the time now).

Now, the dilemma:

I’ve tried to hide my bulge most of my life, and it brought me discomfort and even pain (tight underwear, sagging pants, bad posture [which ultimately partially led to my injury]…).

I’ve gradually come to own it, and for a few months now, I don’t try and hide it at all. I feel better overall, but I still struggle with the "attention" it’s getting me. I sometimes get really self-conscious about it, especially when I get an uncalled for semi.

So my question is: should I go back to hiding it (perhaps with better technique), or should I just totally own it and let the world see my bulge?

I feel like there’s no real middle ground here.

Thanks in advance for your answers and suggestions!