I just found this sub and decided to speak up and share because this has gotten ahold of my head for a lot of years.

I have only been with one woman in my life - my wife. We started dating 6 years ago and married now 5. She dated a lot before me and was with a lot of guys.

I am 5.5x 5.75. The numbers and stats say I am average length but maybe on the girthy side somewhat.

All I know is the first time my wife saw me she said "Oh. It's so little." And that has always stuck with me. I have no other personal frame of reference besides porn. She has lots of big didlos and probably is a size queen even though she says she's not. I totally get that I am not very long at all. I just wish I actually FELT like I was big. I know nothing can be done. I am happy in the marriage but just tired of thinking and feeling the It's so little words that she said.