Well I’m not really sure how to put this, so I’ll try to structure this in a way I think makes the most sense. For years and years, growing up, I was constantly told I’m not big enough, I have a small dick, I’m not strong enough, I’m not tall enough because I’m only 6’2 not 6’4, you get the picture- from like all of my family. And a lot of them have never seen me but due to medical reasons some of my family had, and growing up with that non stop story being told to you develops some pretty serious self confidence issues. Issues my lovely wife knows about since I’ve opened up to her completely, which is something that’s kind of hard for me to do. Now I’ve got what I think anyways is a pretty specific problem, but anyone I’d try to ask in person will just go “oh sure yeah of course you do” so I can only bring my problems here and hope I can get some help. Both of my problems are similar, one I care more about though. I’ve got a dick that’s 9 1/4 inches long measured from the top and 5 1/2 inches girth, and while my wife assured me she loves it even with the difficulties it gives our love life (head is basically a straight no, though early on she’s tried, for example) I get super worried because every so often after we’re done I’ll notice blood or I’ve torn her slightly just tiny injuries. I really try to be careful and a lot of times there’s no issues, but it makes me feel terrible every time I hurt her. She always says it’s fine and she likes it and calls herself a size queen, but I don’t know if she’s just saying that because of my self confidence issues or if she means it, and regardless I still don’t want to hurt her. I get especially scared when I hit her cervix and there’s blood, but she never seems in pain. I guess if I had to sum up my questions into single sentences my questions would be “ How do I keep from hurting her, or are these tiny injuries (that we let heal of course) really not a big deal and to be expected with all things considered?” And “are there any underwear that are known for being supportive and comfortable for people of a bigger size because any underwear I ever get are super tight and uncomfortable, and honestly show way too much bulge?”