Trust me, it’s a lot hotter when a woman genuinely wants it. if you’ve got size it’s going to be a monumental task… Imagine a woman (or man) that already doesn’t really want it now having to put all of that time and effort into preparation and and taking it slow. It’s going to be a major turn off and bad experience all round.

Naturally if you’re big, anal sex might not even be possible, depending on her unique anatomy and yours. But just the concept as a whole, even trying it requires that desire on her end.

My advise is always to let a woman bring it up or want to initiate it. Then you know for sure she’s down and psychologically all for it. By all means put out the feelers, but be tactical about it. There are women out there that will majorly crave it and others that are completely against, and others on the fence, don’t be the reason they switch over the No camp.

This probably applies to a lot of things, but with anal it’s very much a trickier sea to navigate so it needs to be emphasised.