So, ive been working on self respect and setting my standards when dealing with women and ive noticed the way im treated is vastly different then when i was always trying to get some pussy. Many think im gay or am basically a virgin or am not good at sex.

The few who get to know me and we eventually have sex become so attached to me that it clearly is due to the sex aspect rather then me as a person. While this was fun for a little bit it becomes really depressing and creates this void in me. Like i want people to like my hobbies and interests but realizing that as soon as we have sex u want to own me or make me your property.

Does anyone else deal with this, and how do u deal with the sudden change, ive been working on celibacy so its becoming more and more consistent.