I don’t know if it’s the influence of porn or what, but there seems to be a weird obsession with girls being able to inhale a dick. Naturally this gets more and more difficult as you go up in inches.

When a guy’s on the receiving end, the best thing you can do is be enthusiastic and comfortable. It’s as simple as that: whatever that is for you, do that. There seems to be an obsession with deepthroating, but when you get up there in the measurements, it’s simply not possible for 99% of the female population, and that’s completely fine. Even if it is just barely possible but you have to practically unhinge your jaw and be unable to chew for days, then just don’t, do what you’re comfortable with. Sure there will be a few out there that like the whole jaw hanging off thing for the next few days and that’s cool too, but if you’re one of the majority that isn’t into excessive aches and pains on a regular basis, then just figure out what you’re comfortable with. The hottest thing is watching a woman enjoy herself and really wanting to be there.

So use the workarounds: Don’t take all of it in, come at it from the side. More kissing, etc. There are plenty of ways to get creative and please a bigger one without feeling like an overfed anaconda.

As always, if a guy is pushing you to do things you’re not comfortable with, end it. It’s not how it needs to be. There’ll be someone out there for that guy that’s comfortable with all that crazy stuff.

Going down on your guy should never be a chore, and having a big dong to contend with shouldn’t be any more daunting. It just requires a different approach.

Just my thoughts from experience, but hopefully it can settle some nerves for the ladies out there. Maybe also puts some things into perspective for guys that aren’t enjoying oral because of what they’re packing.