Ive found that its somewhat of a blessing and a curse to be a grower not a shower. The reactions after not expecting it are always priceless but i do wish sometimes like people would just be able to be aware of it. I've been lucky to have met a few women who now aware of it and love itand don't mind and even want it to be showing so Ive had the pleasure of getting to make it show for them, generally gets them horny as well so it's a win win. But when I'm not I feel like I'm small which kinda sticks cause I'm my head in like it's big I swear lol. My current love interest did not care for my size as she is not used to it. Apparently she's only been with lil dick dweeb cause I'm basically double any she's had but she likes me enough to put up with it at times. Being intimate is not first on her priorities but she knows It is mine and the size situation is a big kink for me especially when she not a fan and to help meet my needs she let's me basically get my kicks how ever I see fit which is basically getting her nemesis to size and staying like that, which then creates the con of it where she gets cold feet and nervous at how big and how much stamina I got and makes her less interested in having any part of. So It's a toss up for me as to which side I lean towards or hang towards I should say lolol