Hi there. I'm in search of a fun, respectful, casual, physical connection. Also open to developing a supportive friendship, but without expectations or pressure of commitment. Physically, I do enjoy affection beyond just sex, like snugs, kissing, and being close, but again with clear boundaries in place.

A little about me: I'm 34, web/graphic designer, I live on my own in Bergen County, NJ. I value integrity, authenticity, and compassion, and some have said I'm a remarkably good listener. Of the many artists I connect with, one is Soundgarden, and TV I've enjoyed includes Silicon Valley, though these days I rarely watch TV except to catch up on Last Week Tonight w/ John Oliver or a sports game typically while working or getting cardio in.

I'm hoping to develop chemistry with a woman open to occasional meetups, light friendship, and physical intimacy. As we get to know each other and build trust, occasional sleepovers could become an option pending mutual comfort, but at the moment, I'm not looking for anything serious or long-term.

It's important to me that we communicate openly and effectively, prioritize health and safety, and have mutual respect for each other's boundaries while also having fun. For instance, because these situations can be delicate, if either of us starts to develop deeper feelings, I believe in communicating openly and honestly about it to re-evaluate what we both want and need to either adjust our arrangement or part ways with no hard feelings if we're no longer on the same page. I'm also adamant about engaging in safe sex and getting tested regularly, and I expect you to be as well.

If this resonates with you and you're interested in exploring a connection, I'd love to hear a bit about you and what you're looking for. Feel free to ask me anything else you’d like to know. I’m an open book and happy to chat to evaluate our compatibility.

Thank you for reading my lengthy post.