Hello, I’m Em. I’ve posted on this sub before, but alas, I didn’t find what I was looking for, so thought I’d post again.

About me: I’m a Masters student who in my spare time likes to read, write, go on walks, visit museums and knit. I am lover of all things humanities-related, especially history, sociology and philosophy/ethics.

Physically I’m 5'6" and slender.

My kinky interests include exhibitionism, which entails subtle public play and making/sharing anonymous porn. I'm actually looking for someone who would like to be an anonymous feature for an O/F I'm in the process of making initial content for (no, that's not the primary purpose of this post, just a fun suggestion we could have fun with), but your camera skills would have to be at least somewhat decent. Other kinks I enjoy include bondage, orgasm control, cum play, all things anal and roleplay. I hate sadism/masochism so I’ve only ever explored kinky dynamics with guys who liked soft domination.

I want someone very hung and especially very girthy, but lots of length is important too. I usually don’t care about size, but I want someone who’ll help me explore anal stretching and throatfucking. I’m not super experienced with big dicks so I need a patient person to guide me. I've also never been throatfucked, so we may just be successful at anal upon first starting, I can take a dildo with a girth of 6.5" in my ass for reference.

What I don’t want is a guy who is long-distance (if you’re not living along the M25 don’t message) and/or only travels to London occasionally for work/leisure. I need someone who’s down to meet multiple times a week and can host at theirs, that’s highly important.

As mentioned above, I tried this before but stumbled across the following types of individuals I’m not looking for:

1. People who were not residents of London or even the UK at all

2. People who kept sending me a barrage of dick pics instead of introducing themselves. Consent is sexy, send photos when I request for them please.

3. People who were very rude and/or pushy, with no respect for boundaries.

4. Doesn’t fit my description of hung or white.

I’m looking for a fantasy and want a nice, normal man to do it with. One who has character and interests beyond just sex. I’m not looking to date, just have an FWB type situation, the F is important. So while I’m interested in our potential sexual dynamic, I want to also get to know you. A good way to get the conversation flowing is by giving a brief description of yourself, both SFW and NSFW facts. And just so I know you’ve read this, who are some of your all-time favourite music artists?