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I feel like I'm living half in the shadows. My gf knows and 2 of my friends but I don't think I'll ever let my kids know.
What is the concern?
If they are of age to understand and you wish to have a fully authentic life with them and they too feel comfortable being authentic and open, you may wish to disclose.
You do not need to give details or graphic it you can be open to answer questions.
My kids were not only receptive but encouraging.
Perhaps you need to take some time to evaluate two things: 1. Why do you think it would change to be more authentic with them? 2. What trauma may you have that would make you feel fraudulent?
Be kind to yourself. You are at odds with yourself. Part of you wishes to be liberated and fully accepted by them as you should. They are your greatest treasure. You may fear rejection, maybe? If so, why? If that’s not it, then what are you wresting with internally?
Again, you may not have to be so blunt but perhaps don’t work so hard to conceal it.
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Do you know how they feel about bisexuality in general?