A few years ago an older straight guy contacted me on a different website and asked an interesting question. He saw that I enjoyed giving long, deep handjobs and asked, "Would it be selfish and rude to ask you to milk me dry and not reciporicate? I am straight and, while receiving that kind of attention sounds incredible, I have zero desire to anything back." He continued on to say that he felt guilty being the recipient of so much pleasure and was worried that a guy like me might not be interested in connecting if he didn't want to do anything in return.

I quickly reassured him that the whole joy of millking, for me at least, is that both parties get something out of the experience.

For me personally, this includes:

Providing a New (and exhilarating) Experience: Men are often asked to be active in the bedroom. Givers. Milking a man and helping him enjoy the slow experience of releasing his seed is rewarding for me....whether he is on all fours or just kicking back. I particularly love the look of surprise, pleasure, and ecstasy when a guy is on the receiving end of my hands, toys, lube, mouth, and prostate massage skills. He has no expectations other than enjoying the moment.

Appreciation: Most men who get milked are extremely appreciative for the attention. They enjoy the energy, enthusiasm, care, and skill that goes into the milking session. That appreciation is reciporicated because it takes a lot for a straight guy to be that vulnerable....to move past social stigmas and enjoy letting another man help you out.

Connection: The thing I enjoy most is the deeper connection I develop through milking. In a world where men have such a hard time being close or intimate in any way with each other, it is nice to have this unique experience and this deeper bond. Its a safe, fun, enjoyable release that allows men to share energy in a way society seems to frown upon.

I ended by telling my my concerned straight friend not to feel guilty. I promised him that both men get something out of a milking experience focused on him. He just needs to ask for what he needs, be respectful, and to enjoy the fun.

For those of you reading this, I welcome thoughts and additional insights. Have you ever felt this way?