Are you 1 in a million? Looking for the rare truly submissive couple (or hotwife/gf) that desires an intense BDSM based experience. Looking for IRL only, not online games.

TLDR version - 52YO fit, no kids, DDF, non-smoking, dominant in Durham area of NC. Can easily travel in NC, SC VA DC and MD. I am seeking couples wiht a masochistic bent and desire to serve. Sub males are ideally chastity or willing to learn. Me hosting is preferred and can be arranged on short notice.

Dominance and kink are linked to sexuality, but this is not just about sex. I want to discuss your needs and see how we can make it work. Maybe you want a dominant bull? Need a disciplinarian to keep you on track? Maybe you just love kink play and want to use as an outlet? Or maybe you are looking for rules and control? Each of those is ok and could work for us! I do want something ongoing - just a quick hookup is not really my style.

My favorite kink is regular impact play (spanking ), but all parts of control, objectification, bondage and discipline turn me on. I prefer established committed couples who are looking for more. I enjoying guiding and exploring each journey to achieve a fulfilling experience for all of us. I can be your mentor, your coach, and confidant about all aspects of kink and life.

Are you a couple who want to explore kink, submission and discipline? I am your guy. If you want, we can discuss and explore activities and vanilla things as well. Hiking, cooking, cycling, yoga, chilling with netflix: yes, we will do all those things and more.

Physically: white, fit, clean, groomed and well dressed and smell great. I am an independent, successful and professional guy in everyday life. I tend to be a quiet leader who gains trust and confidence based on expertise and knowledge. I rarely get angry and never loose my temper. I have no kids, DDF, rarely drink. Non smokers only (420ok, usually vape ok). I am straight, and you can ask about other important criteria like size. Straight but not phobic.

Attraction matters. I am not too picky, but do prefer HWP. I am willing to have bdsm only sessions even if we don't become sexual - again if it works for both. A few photos of me: https://imgur.com/a/B8ZWGtH And yes, I do verify after we have established mutual interest.

For those into kink, I generally follow RACK principles. It should not need to be mentioned, but anything illegal, kids, animals or that is going to lead to severe injury is off the table. Should be hard limits for everyone. Generally not into: heavy scat, intentional blood, ABDL. I have a few other limits, but we can discuss that later.