❎I have yet to get an erection when I’m with another man (no problems in that department and even have tried pills) ❓How typical is this?

Don’t know if it is relevant but a bit of my background:

I just started endulging my bisexuality (a bit later in life mid-30’s) a little less than a year ago I’m am happily DL in my life and no one would believe I have a homosexual side

➡️ although always being a top (even a bull) in my heterosexual-world my homosexual-world finds me a strong submissive (primarily oral) ➡️I throughly enjoy my hook-ups, we both have a lot of fun (me servicing) and don’t feel remorse or guilt about it ▶️ always get compliments on my body and cock (I’m endowed at 7.5”) so I only hook up with men who are more well-endowed than I am ⏯️yes men have tried to arouse me in the ways you’d imagine - frankly the lack of life is a bit humiliating (not in a sexy way)

Ideas, suggestions, directions, advice appreciated in advance