Have any of you bi brothers ever experienced a relationship with another man without any pretense of masculine hierarchy or decorum. I think that so much of interaction between men tends to be hierarchical and tends to have boundaries of acceptable masculine behavior/decorum. Have you ever had a relationship with another man that didn’t have these boundaries of masculinity?

I met a guy recently and we both seem to be into each other. He’s mostly gay, whereas I’m mostly bisexual. I feel so comfortable flirting with him, praising his c*ock and body, and basically just telling him that he’s one of the very few men I CRAVE physical intimacy with. We had an interesting conversation about masculinity in relationships between men, and I told him that I’d love a relationship where we both are able to drop masculine boundaries with each other and bare ourselves to each other as men. I’d love to be able to have this talk with him as we’re cuddling. Think about that: two men talking about being men and masculinity while cuddling naked with each other. I love the idea of being able to drop all notions of manhood and simply enjoy each other as lovers who both happen to be men.

Have any of you had a relationship like this with another man where you are able to drop masculine boundaries and be open and bare about yourself, your sexuality and maybe even about masculinity?