Anyone else have really bad dry skin (beard AND mustache) issues?

My beard oil (100% natural ingredients) actually seems to make it worse or give me a reaction.

My balm doesn't really help.

My leave in conditioner doesn't really help.

I take cold showers that aren't more than 15-20 minutes (I have long hair it is hard to be much faster). All natural ingredients in my beard wash. Wash it twice a week.

I gently pat dry, then lightly blow dry (cool air) my beard after shower and immediately apply leave in conditioner or oil or both.

Nothing seems to really help.

My beard isn't even very long or overly thick.

EDIT: i have 2 boar brushes one is a bit uses and oilified so it's softer. I have a new one that I'm using only when shits dry so it stays more stiff.

I brush beard when I wake up, right before a shower (only shower once every other day) and usually after work since I might get metal chips and debris in it.