This is a long shot but I thought I'd try it out. Have you ever read a particularly hot book and found that you were wondering what it might be like to be in control in a kinky context? I'm looking for someone who wants to try new things, get to know each other and have a safe space for some exploration into BDSM and kink.

I don't have a huge amount of experience on the submissive side but it's something I'm looking to learn more about. There's something very intimate about trusting someone enough to completely let go and let her be in complete control of the situation. I'm in my mid 30's, medium muscular build, fair skin and brown hair, Australian born and raised.

I'm open to exploring many things and I'd love to have an open discussion about the things we've been curious about, what we'd like to experiment with, and what really gets us worked up. Some of the things that have got me interested are chastity, tease and denial, clothing control, forced oral, being compared to your ex's, and in general just letting go of stereotypes and exploring new things together. But I'm very interested in learning what interests you and finding out how we might be able to help each other on our journey.

To start us off I'd love to hear your stance on pineapple on pizza, are you for or against? (this'll help avoid awkwardness as we start the conversation and also help me know that you read the whole thing since this ended up being way longer than I planned)

Whether you're really experienced or you're just wanting to explore something completely new please send me a message and let's have a chat. The only thing I ask is that you be genuine in your chat with me, I'm not looking for a professional arrangement or Findom and I've got a heavy preference for something IRL rather than purely online (I'm in Sydney).

Hope to hear from you soon.