I’ve been chatting with a Dom for a potential TPE D/s dynamic. At this point, we are chatting, getting to know each other and he’ll give me orders on a ad hoc basis. Honourifics mean a lot to both of us and we don’t use them yet but for the purposes of this story….. let’s call him Sir.

Sir and I were chatting on Tuesday evening and it was getting late so he told me to go to sleep and wake up at 6 am. The next morning, I was feeling soo sleepy and couldn’t get out of bed and slept in. I told on myself and was told that I would get a bad girl bed time where I had to go to sleep early with no electronics and wake up at 5 am. I failed at both…. Sir was proud of me for telling him and we both agreed I’d get punished for disobedience. My punishment…. was figging. I was a little nervous and accepted the fact that I was being punished. There are and will be consequences when I’m not accountable and don’t do as I’m told. I felt extremely naughty going to the grocery store to buy ginger…. Sexual thoughts were in my head about eventually being owned and dominated by Sir. Didn’t really think about the punishment until I started to peel the ginger

I started getting anxious when I was about to put it in my bum…. Sir text me “do it now”, then I topped myself and said “relax your bum like you do for anal and a plug. It will be okay”. Getting it in was easy…. The burning sensations took over right away and i felt like I was being punished, paying my dues for not being accountable and being obedient to Sir…. part of me was excited about receiving Sirs discipline as well. I lied on my stomach naked and took the pain and burning while Sir was texting me asking me what I learnt today. At the 5 minute mark, Sir told me 60 more seconds for good measure and to count…. During that 60 seconds, the burn was unbearable and I could barely count but I got through it knowing Sir was enforcing the power exchange. I adore the love hate mind fuck and the reminder of who is in charge of me

Afterwards, I sat on the couch eating dinner with a burning bum. I felt at ease afterwards and like I redeemed my good girl status in his books.

Being disciplined like that makes me excited for the life and dynamic that I want. Being controlled and owned sexually and in other facets of my life (diet, sleep, exercise etc).

I went to sleep last night on time and woke up this morning when I was told.

Thanks for reading :)