At first, I wasn’t into the idea of humiliating him. Then a few months in, I tried mild SPH every now and then. The more confident I became, the better I got at it (his words not mine). I started pushing the boundaries with it and found that in addition to him becoming more submissive, I actually got turned on by it and really enjoy it.

One thing that I really surprised me was forced crossdressing. It started with just panties. Then I got him a nightgown to wear. I just kept pushing it further and we both responded positively. I have no desire or want to feminize him, but I like using aspects of it for the humiliation factor. Sometimes I’ll have him wear a bra and panties to work or well wear matching lingerie out for date night. It gets me incredibly excited thinking about how masculine he appears but under his clothes his little peepee is locked up and he’s wearing a bra and panties.