First off, the idea of dominance and submission has never crossed my mind as something I'd be interested in. I've never put any thought into whether I am dominant or submissive. Well tonight(sorry folks this is the don't judge part) I wanted to please the wife for valentines and took her to 50 shades of gray. I went in guard up thinking that I was going to hate the movie. Now, while the movie was mediocre it was the D's things that were going on that almost seemingly flipped a switch inside of me. I felt exhilarated watching, imagining myself in a dominant role, how I would play and what I would do. I literally left with an almost adrenaline rushing high feeling with this insatiable urge for something...now I can't stop thinking about it. What's happening to me!!

Edit: Wow, thank you all for the support and information you have given me. I received much more response than I expected. I spent hours, not sleeping last night doing some research. I know I don't want to be solely dominant in the bedroom. I want it to extend into our daily lives, I want to own her. I have not discussed anything with my wife yet, I want to research and learn as much as possible before discussing it. Or should I be discussing it with her and researching with her? Thanks again you all are fantastic! I live in a rural area so finding people experienced in the lifestyle is challenging.