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So I (31m) recently began a relationship with a wonderful girl (28) and I want to do everything I can to please her. She has told me that she wants me to be aggressive (explicitly told me to pin her down and push her around & is open to being slapped around).
The thing is - she says that she doesn’t want this 100 percent of the time and also wants me to be gentle but “has no idea” when I should be one way or the other. She has a bit of an issue communicating verbally to me what exactly she wants and it’s a bit difficult and I can’t understand why she cannot just tell me.
Any advice on getting these answers out of her? Is it just a new relationship thing and it takes time? We’ve been dating for only 3 months.
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