Hello everyone. I'm writing this in hopes of differing viewpoints. I met this woman a while ago that is amazing, with little sexual experience with her previous partners. We discussed BDSM briefly as I am giving her space to acclimatise to new things I tell her. I'm meeting her needs 100% at present outside of BDSM related things.

That being said, we had a discussion this morning where she said she's open to try new things once we discuss them and she's comfortable. So I'm at this point where because she's new to things and haven't tried things, I don't want her to feel indebted or guilty for me meeting her vanilla needs, and in turn put herself in an uncomfortable position to meet my BDSM needs.

Anyone here feel this way or come across a similar scenario?