I've been asked to share why I love this part of our relationship so much. Why would anyone male or female take this and what it does for me personally.

So I hope this comes across as it should, it is meant as an open and honest account of our life and the benefits this gives us both.

When you're intimate with your partner, it's amazing, that 30 minutes, an hour, however long it is of making love is so special and so close. It's beautiful, the feelings of passion and closeness, the orgasm, the cuddles, the shower after and then it's finished.

Well imagine that lasting much much longer, I will feel these bumps on my legs for hours yet. I'll remember the look on Debis face when she said 5 more just before the tears started, I'll see the marks for days and I'll remember each and every one and the reason why it's there. I don't have that post orgasmic drop, I have to just touch a bruise and I'm straining at my cage again. Our intimacy doesn't just last an hour or two, I'll get turned on by each mark for days. Debi just has to brush against my legs and she will feel it too.

It isn't sexual, it's far from vanilla, but we're both constantly aroused by her dominance and my submission.

We are so lucky to have found each other, to have grown into the relationship we have and to continue to grow.

Thankyou for reading.