I’m 20M and have only been in dominant roles with partners. I have some challenges with vulnerability and arousal so being a service dom / pleasure dom has been my easiest route to intimacy. I want to expirament with subbing but I’m worried I’m not attractive enough for someone to want to dominate me. I’m also ftm and in the awkward second puberty phase and that mixed with dysphoria makes it harder to see myself as desirable.

Not really sure what I’m hoping for as the outcome of this post, but some words of encouragement would be helpful. I’m also motivated to sub so I can be a more effective dominant but I know that’s not the only reason.