Hey!

So, to start, the thriller novel I’m writing is not supposed to be about the consensual/positive aspects of BDSM culture. I understand that and y’all are cool in my book. This is supposed to be about people being pushed to be doms in situations they felt uncomfortable in. Think being paid to become a sort of Jigsaw by the person you have to abuse. I want to make sure the things that I choose for those sequences to be realistic for real people pushing it too far. You can either have gone through with it or not, but it’s mainly what was suggested.

So! If you, as a dom, have turned down someone for getting too intense or done something you regret, I’m curious about those stories. The plot of my novel is about two men in this scenario if that helps. Also, this literally is just for research to be clear. Please don’t write fictional scenarios or try to make it spicy. Clear breakdowns are best!