I f sub from New York am with a dom from Germany we’ve been together for about a month or two. I have rules and I mostly follow them but we’ve been running into issues bc when i get upset or angry(not with him) I just kinda do whatever I want not caring about the punishments. I feel completely independent and feel I don’t need him at all. This could easily be solved if I could just tell him but I think I’d take advantage of it a lot and just use it whenever I wanna do something. I really want to submit to him and give him control. There’s also times where I only want to follow exactly what he tells me and am fully submissive. So I guess we’ve just hit a road block and dk how to change the dynamic so it fits both of our needs. I also just wanna make him happy because I rly like him and hate disappointing him.