I made a similar post yesterday, but I didn't have time to answer to questions so I only linked to a previous AMA I made instead of making the full post, and it (obviously) didn't get any traction, so I make now a new AMA for r/BDSM

This is the post -

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First of all, I want to say that everything was always with my consent, my master was always nice and gentle, we have safewords and I can always leave if I want (and I did leave, when I chose to)

It all started about 2 years ago, I was out of work for a while, and was late on my rent for 3 months, was not in touch with any family members, and didn't want to ask my friends for help, so I met with my landlord [29M], to discuss how we can resolve it

Very early into the discussions we have realized that even if I find a job right on that day (that pays as much as the last one I had), it would at least a year to pay it all up.

Seeing how he was a young guy, and I a young girl (with a pretty athletic body), I tried to offer to pay sexually, but he simply said that the amount of money is too big to just pay up with a few sex sessions, I asked what is his kink, he said BDSM, and I offered to be handcuffed in those sessions, but that was still not enough

I went home, disappointed and clueless as to how to pay the rent, then the idea popped up to my head - I will offer to become his sexslave for an entire month in exchange for all the debts

So I called him, and we discussed the details again, and this time (after seeing a nude of me) he agreed to this offer -

For a month, for 23 hours a day I will be a mix of his sexslave and maid, I will be naked and handcuffed (legs, and hands behind back) and wear a collar, do all the chores and take care of all his sexual needs for a month, in exchange for him giving up on the 3 months rent I was due the rent in the month I will be slave in the month after

The relationship was very casual, we called each other by name, and talked normally, no roleplaying

The day looked like that

6:30 AM : We would wake up, I am sleeping in the same bed as him, handcuffed, blindfolded ballgagged and my collar is attached to the bedframe, when we wake up he releases me from the bedframe and removes my blindfold and gag, and about half the days, he would request a morning blowjob

Than he would go to have a shower, while I get up and make breakfast, a task that initially was quiet hard with the cuffs, but I figured it out eventually (it never became as easy as doing it uncuffed, but I got much better at it with time)

8:00 AM: After breakfast and some watching TV, he would go to work, leaving me alone with some chores

Now I feel like a lot of you will now be worried about safety, and while yes, I never had the keys to the cuffs or any way to uncuff myself (as I wanted him to know that I fulfill my contract and remain cuffed), I could always unlock the main door and leave the house in case of an emergency, thankfully it never happened, that would be awkward

Usually I wouldn't have a ton of chores, after which I would be free to do whatever I want, the chores would usually be the laundry, cleaning the house, doing dishes, making dinner and daily 30 minutes of blowjob training (he attached a dildo to the wall, which I would have to deepthroat, I had to turn on a camera and record it for a proof)

He would usually return from work at around 5 pm, sometimes before, sometimes later, at which point he would almost always eat dinner and check the footage to make sure I practiced my deepthroat.

After doing so, he would usually gag me, and sit me near him while he played on his Xbox (most of the time some variation of COD), for about 30-40 minutes he would play normally, while feeling me during off time (loading screens and such), after that he asks me to get down on my knees in front of him (I am still gagged), and rub head and breasts (mostly head) in his dick for a few minutes, than he would ungag me and tell me to give him a very slow blowjob (all while he still plays)

This is usually my last task for the day

9 PM : He would uncuff one of my hands, and one my legs, and now I would be completely free to do what I want in privacy, I would usually use that time to shower, browse my phone and masturbate, if I was horny myself, but I have to cuff myself back by 10 PM (and show him that I did), if I was late, even by 1 minute, I would be punished by not being uncuffed the next day

11-11:30 PM: Going to sleep, I would say that in about half of the days he would request another blowjob before sleep, after which I would be gagged, blindfolded, and chained to the bedframe to sleep

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Besides the rough first few days, where it took sometime to get used to the feeling of behind helpless, and figure out how to do all my usual day to day tasks in handcuffs, the time went by pretty smoothly, and I actually found out I enjoyed the idea of being completely controlled, and taken care for, not needing to worry about anything, just doing exactly what I am told, also, apparently, being handcuffed really turns me on

Anyway, after I left him, I found a new job, and did just fine for myself for a while, but very quickly, I found out that I just wanna go back to being carefree and restricted

I managed to hold on to that thought for a while, but after 6 months, I have decided that I want to go back, and be even more restricted this time

So I called up my previous master again, and asked him to return permanently (or until one of us get sick of it), with a few changes which would make more restricted

- Handcuffs will be swapped to 8cuffs

- Legcuffs will be closer

- I would be gagged while he is at work

- I would be wearing a chastity belt, and he will decide when I get to orgasm based on how good of a slave I was (it was usually once every month, regardless of my behavior)

- I would be handcuffed 24 hours, no breaks

- I would be punished if I failed him

He agreed, and besides those changes, everything was pretty much the same for those 2 years, only difference is that after about a year he bought a device that would count how many time I had the entire dildo inside my throat, I would need to reach 200 times each day, which would usually take between 1-2 hours, depending on my mood (this is instead of the 30 minute on-video deepthroat training)

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After about 2 years I left again, I wanted to give normal life another try, he helped to get back to normal life, and find a new job, it has been 3 months since I left, again, doing fine, still feels weird being uncuffed, and I kinda want to go back again, but I think I will hold on at least a few more months before I do, if I ever go back, I would probably want to be even more restricted