I just realized I might be a pillow princess.

My partner told me a while back that I did the least in bed than any other woman he’s been with. I was surprised by this because I’ve always thought I’ve done decent. I count taking a big slough in my tiny hoo ha and being in pain for days as work. I bleed most of the time from this. My body takes a pounding. (I like this FYI. Sometimes the pain is too much but I always had the power to stop it. I just mostly chose not to.)

I like having things done to me and having my partner “force” me to do things. So s/d dynamic I suppose.

I find him doing little compare to other partners. Of course I understand it’s hard work to thrust and all, but he doesn’t do anything extra out of what is considered normal. Lots of missionary and doggie.

My partner seems quite vanilla to me. Maybe we’re not compatible in bed? Am I a pillow princess? Maybe some kind of sub?

I’ve been told by Doms that I wasn’t a “true” sub because I don’t like being disciplined and made to do random stuff like bark like a dog just because they told me to.