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This Community is designed as a Meeting Place, Show Off Forum (Out of the Area Show Offs Are Welcome!), An Information Exchange, and Lifestyle Resource for Swingers in the Southern California Area, which is composed of the San Luis Obispo, Kern, San Bernardino, Santa Barbara, Ventura, Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, San Diego, and Imperial Counties. While most of our members are locals, Out of the Area Friends and Visitors are Welcome Here! We do ask that upon joining you read over the Rules.

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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Be Respectful

In this community we believe respect to be the cornerstone of fostering positive, productive, and meaningful interactions, and building positive relationships within the Swinging Community.

It should go without saying that this is a ZERO tolerance zone for Insults, Shaming (Body, Slut, etc.) of any kind, and/or any manner of harassment.

Breaking this rule will result in a Permenant Ban

Golden Rule:

Don't Be A Dick

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Post Format

Posts that use the proper post format will be approved, others will need to be revised before they can be approved.

The correct format for this community is:

Age [Seeking] - Title of Your Post - Picture Attached to Ad - Flair Location

Example:

35/38 [MF4MF] - Bbw Couple seeking other Bbw couples in the LA area for steamy fun tonight

This format tells us:

-Your Age, or round abouts
-Who you are and what you're looking for
-Gives your ad a title
-Has a picture
-Has Flair County Location

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Posts Must Contain Original Content

One of the qualifications to post here is posting Original Content. Content posted may not be screen shot, copied, linked, or otherwise taken from a different source, and posted here. Original Content may not be fuzzy, blurred (with the except of your face), out of focus, super zoomed in, or otherwise of poor or questionable quality.

We do recommend that you watermark your Original Content.

This policy is meant to curb, or (ideally) eliminate Blank Profile Swing "Tourists" and "Tourism".

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Single Male Posting

Please Read The Community Rules!!

Single Male posts are not allowed here.

Single males may only respond/comment to ads within the community, but are not permitted to post ads. This is to prevent the community from becoming a "Sausage Party" where 9 out of every 10 ads is M4MF, M4F, or M4M as a lot of other "Personals" subs do

First Offense is a Warning, Repeated Offenses will result in your permenant removal from the community.

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Unicorn Posting

Single Females are welcome to post F4F and F4MF Ads provided they have verified with the Mod Team FIRST, and received verification flare.

This is to ensure that you are actually a woman, and you are not catfishing anyone.

Unverified F4F or F4MF Ads will be removed, and a warning will be issued. Repeated Offenses will result in your permenant removal from the Community.

To find out about verification, please message the Mod Team.

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Content Creating Couples & Bbws - No Advertising

Content creators are allowed to post here. Unlike many other subs, we realize it is NONE of our business what you do on your own profile, and us trying to police that is insane, and an overreach of Authority.

If you are legitimately here to meet up, then you are welcome to post here, provided that you are NOT using this sub to drive subscribers, advertise, self-promote, etc. That's pretty easy, and very fair.

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No Selling Sex, No Buying Sex, No Exceptions

🚫No Prostitution🚫

Posts on this sub about your "Menu", "Generou$", "Ro$es", etc. will result in a Permanent Ban from this community. We do not allow accounts that Sell Sex, or charge for Sexual Favors, to Advertise or Promote here.

While we support Sex Work as a legitimate line of work, that's not what this sub is about, that's not what this sub is for. The advertising & selling of "services" is not welcomed here. No Exceptions.

Get That Bag, Baby Girl... Just Do It Elsewhere.

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No Advertising Pay Sites, No Paid Parties, or Paid Events

Content creators are allowed to post here. We realize it is NONE of our business what you do on your own profile, and us trying to police that is insane an overreach of authority. You are welcome to post here, provided that you are NOT using this sub to drive subscribers, advertise, self-promote, etc.

Residential events/parties may be advertised here provided they are FREE. Paid events and Pay for Play parties are not allowed to be posted here.

Exceptions for legitimate clubs and businesses.

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Ad Spamming

While we appreciate your excitement to post in our community, we ask that there be a maximum of 1 post per day, as opposed to multiple posts in a day.

Trust the process and give people time to respond.

This will help to make sure every single add isn't the same woman or couple.

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One Post Per Day

While we appreciate your excitement to post in our community, we ask that there be a maximum of 1 post per day, as opposed to multiple posts in a day.

Trust the process and give people time to respond.

This will help to make sure every single add isn't the same woman or couple.

If you post, leave for a few hours, delete, and try to re-post, your deleted post already counts as your 1 post.

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No Dick Pics As Your Ad Cover

We realize that your Junk is amazing, fantastic, and should just be out there to be shared with the world...

However, the focus of this Sub is Southern California Bbw's, and a cute couples pic, or picture of her as the cover photo to your ad would be appreciated so that a dick isn't the 1st thing we see as we scroll.

Whatever comes after the cover is up to you. But, it shouldn't be your dick.

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Comment Spamming

While we appreciate your excitement to post comments in the community, we do ask that your comments be thoughtful, positive, and contribute to building a great community.

Spamming the same comment on dozens of ads in a row is the opposite of that. It also cheapens compliments when you've commented, "Oh, baby, so hot" on 50 posts.

Please avoid spamming copy/paste comments on every post you see.

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Non-Consensual Intimate Media

This community doesn't allow non-consensual intimate media to be posted.

Posting Non-Consensual Intimate Media will result in a permanent ban from the community, no exceptions.

Non-Consensual Intimate Media includes any images, or videos where the subject is unaware or has not given their full and informed consent to be posted.

Again, All Content Must Be Original & Owned By You!

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No Selling, No Buying, No Exceptions

Posts on this sub about your "Menu", "Panties for Sale", "Subscriptions", etc. will result in a permanent ban from this community, as we do not allow accounts that Sell, or Charge to meet, to Advertise or Promote anything in this community.

While we support Sex Work as a legitimate line of work, that's not what this sub is about, that's not what this sub is for. The advertising & selling of "services" is not welcomed here. No Exceptions.

Get That Bag, Baby Girl... Just Do It Elsewhere.

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Impersonation, Theft, and Scams

We have a ZERO tolernace policy for:

-Picture Theft
-Impersonation
-Scams

A violation of this policy will result in your permenant removal from the community.

We also as that you avoid sending or giving money to ANYONE. There should be no monetary exchanges in the community, no exceptions.

Note:

If you report someone for this violation, you will need to send screenshot proof of what you are saying. Malicious reports will NOT be tolerated.

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Illegal & Illicit Activity

Posts that discuss, encourage, or invite members of the community to participate in illegal or illicit activities is strictly forbidden.

This includes Drugs, Prostitution, and any other illegal or illicit activities which go against the rules of this community and the Reddit Terms of Service.

A violation of this rule will result in a permanent, and irrevocable ban.

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Ban Evasion Accounts

Ban Evasion Accounts

If you are BANNED from the sub, the solution is NOT to make a new account, because we will just re-Ban you at that point and then report you to Reddit, as Ban Evasion is against the Terms of Service.

In the event of Ban Evasion, your original ban will stand, and no appeal will be heard, and the new account will also be banned.

We will diligently repeat this process until you get the point.

If you block the Mod Team and still try to post, note, WE CAN STILL SEE YOU!

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Swinger Tourism & Tourists

This sub is meant as a way for legitimate Couples to meet up with couples, singles, and groups.

"Couples" with blank accounts, who are not verified, who ghost, and generally act in a flakey or suspicious manner will be removed from the community.

"My wife can't make it but I'm free", Pic Collecting, etc. will not be tolerated.

If you run into this please DM Mods with screen shots.

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