I think that one if the most important aspects of the lifestyle is recognizing red flags, and potentially dangerous situations.

I am posting 2 examples of things that I have experienced, and I would LOVE for those of you with Red Flag moments to share as well.

My fist one was when I posted a F4F ad. Out of around 200 replies, there were 2 legit single females. 1 was not my type, and the other I did playtime with. The rest were single men, and couples.

A woman (more likely her husband) reached out from Downey, we conversed, and nearly immediately it's "Me and My Husband" despite the ad being a F4F ad.

It gets progressively stranger, and the spelling and grammar were dog shit, and then I am asked to fly to Oklahoma, but they'd cover the flight costs. Not only super weird, but these could be sex traffickers, murderers, or God knows what.

The 2nd (Slide #5), is a pretty common one when I post F4F ads. Have a decent convo with a cute, local girl, only to find out that they aren't even a swinging couple, Im talking to the guy, and he's looking to cheat on her.

No only do I specifically have posted that I don't assist cheaters, this dude literally pretended to be his lady. Super Creepy.

He hits me with the selfie, and all I can think is, "It puts the lotion on its skin, or it goes the hose again..." 😂 Hard pass.

So, how about you all? What creepy situations or Red flags have you come across in the Lifestyle?