As we grow in spurts, we are plagued with spammers, bots and time wasters. Over the past week we have had 200 attempts of the "bad actors" to post in the subreddit with some duping our members into believing they are a couple or a single woman only to find out they were pay to play, asking for some sort of trade to exchange pictures or just straight up time wasters.

As we slowly transition towards more verification like other popular subreddits such as r/Hotwife and similar(which get tons of traffic) the verification process allows for real people to know they are dealing with real people who took the time to verify. Very similar to Kasidie, Swing Life Style and other popular swinger websites that ask you to verify before being able to interact. While we can't set up the subreddit to that degree, we can reward those that verify with Verified badges and not allow those that want to remain unverified access to a great community.

With this process we aim to streamline the meeting process and look out for our members time and hope to deter time wasters. Below are some basic questions to vote on and we will leave comments open to everyone.

We want to hear from the community that we enjoy so we have a thriving and fun place to interact.

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