My boyfriend thinks the bar is as important as his hobbiest photo editing… I cannot wrap my mind around, nor get it through his head that the bar is much more important to me right now compared to him trying to switch his career to being a freelance photographer and film maker.

Going into bar prep and moving for my job, it was agreed upon that he would be taking care of the dogs, helping around the house more, and in general just stepping it up. But now he’s fighting me and pushing back on doing anything because he wants to dink around on his computer.

I know my stress and anxiety is getting the better of me. But this is irking my nerves really bad. It’s just frustrating that it feels like he thinks the bar is a joke.