I hate the feeling of shoes or socks and am just afraid I'll be kicked out of places or judged and I already have really bad social anxiety. I kinda just wish I never had to wear shoes. Honestly thinking of trying to move to a more coastal city where it's more acceptable. It kinda feels unbearable. Sandals are okay but I'm never actually "comfortable" I feel like it might be tied to being on the spectrum.

I don't think most people would even give a shit honestly but my fear keeps me back I guess. Has anyone had any experience just saying fuck it and not bringing shoes? Do people just tell you to put them on or leave and you basically get an idea of where it's okay to? Has anyone ever been outright told to just gtfo not even a "hey we have a no shirt no shoes policy" I feel like a lot of places except you to read their mind about policy.