Ok sooo I have a HBC (sorry i know it's so hard to get) onbuhimo. I actually bought it for my husband, but tried it on yesterday (back carry) because I was going to wash dishes and did not want to wet the waistband on my OG (I'm one of those). Anyways that shit hurted. Like I could not extend my arms because it felt like my armpits were going to be cut off. My husband then confesses that he always feels uncomfortable in it. Great. The only reason I am trying to make it work is because I'm planning on getting pregnant in the next year and I like the idea of no waistband near my belly and if I'm being honest I'm salty at how hard it was to score the damn thing. So does anyone have any advice? Things I have already tried include: having baby up high (shoulder to shoulder), superman toss, loosening the chest strap, bending over to cinch, standing up straight to cinch. LO is only 7 months old, maybe she's just too small to make it comfy right now (20ish lbs)? Lastly, I might just sell it if I cant figure it out so if you are interested leave a comment. I want to give it to someone who has not scored and I promise it'll be a reasonable price (those resellers that price gouge can suck a big one). It's an eucalyptus with tan.