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Raving with older men?
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I raved with a man at least 10 years older than me, and I was pleasantly surprised at how fun it was. The dynamic felt so natural. Everything went so smoothly, and I felt safe like I could turn my brain off and allow everything to wash over me. I had never felt so satisfied before??

From the whole experience I didn’t even feel the need to go out the next day because I felt satisfied enough from the experience.

I’d never consider this to be a possibility before until recently. I only ever exclusively raved with techno girlies, but recently I’ve been venturing out. I raved with men and women younger than myself. This is all fun regardless. Usually I’m focused I keeping everyone together, hydrated, and emotionally okay/stable. People will be people, but it’s about embracing the differences and appreciate that we’re all human beings united by our love for the music and the community.

I didn’t know who else I could talk to about this. I know if I told my friends they would tease me about it lol .

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I've never considered this

We've lost so much as a people.

The mere concept of mentorship, passing the torch and intergenerational bonding is starting to fade.

Not attacking you. Just floored by how much everyone's been divided.

Im 35 my wife is 44. We go to raves and shows for the music. We pretty much always have a great time. We have gone with lots of people younger and older than us. I think one thing about raving when you are older is you know how to have fun but not go overboard. You learn your lessons from when you sre younger and you can handle almost any situation that happens because you have before.

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