So I recently as of last year i discovered that I love festivals and raves but I always feel guilty when I go with my wife bc I like to go onto the crowd and she doesn't. She says she's ok just sitting there and just listening to the music but I can't help but to feel like I should be there with her whether it's to just keep her company, watch for other assholes that could fw her drink, or in case something happens. Obviously she's an adult and can handle herself but I can't help but to feel anxious if I'm doing the wrong thing even going to shows sometimes bc I don't want her to not enjoy herself. I've even missed a Crankdat concert recently bc I got too anxious about wanting to make sure she has a genuinely good time. Any thoughts on this would be very appreciated