So my part time job is in a kitchen and one of the cooks is annoying and a bully kinda. (Hes iranian for context) he was telling the chef that he was trying to hook his friend up with one of the servers that used to work here but is off for school or something. Shes always making pretty racist comments about guests often. Anyways when he showed his friend to her from his phone she said "no way because hes asian." He said to the chef that she gave a reason why and made the thumb and index finger symbol of small referring to penis🤏 and then he laughed about in a mocking way. It made me feel like shit because of my OCD and "small penis syndrome" and triggered my insomnia again and couldnt sleep at all last night. Comments like that feel like a personal attack when I'm trying to heal. And I hate how people are so toxic about this kind of shit, and this isnt the first time hes made comments about small penises and even asked me randomly what my size was which was cringe. I dont get how he feels so confident commenting about people having small penises like hes packing or something. He said he never even measured his or has knowledge about calsd averages and so on. I fucking hate people like this and I have to stay silent about it when I want to say I think its cringe and insensitive.