it all comes down to statistics, the few people with above average stats are way more likely to show off them, that does not mean they’re the average, and it definitely doesn’t mean you can’t be loved.

take a look a “r/ nudist_loving” that is dedicated to pictures of nudists showing affection to each other’s. It’s filled with a huge sample of what i believe to be the average man, and the best part of it, they’re all being accompanied by a woman that seems to love them for whom they are. it takes just some scrolls to realize what i’m talking about and the feelings that this brings you.

another resource of an actual randomized sample of normal man that you might like to take a look at is the festival “burning man” which contains a high amount of naked normal people enjoying each other.

i hope that helps.