(M29) My girl (F25) just recently got diagnosed with autism and it makes alot of sense with the way she thinks. She also has PMDD so for 2 weeks tensions are high and meltdowns are plenty. However even out of luteal we argue to the point of hurt feelings (no name calling or screaming) almost 2-4 times a week and I am drained emotionally I have nothing left to give.

Its tough for me because I am very social and love to go out and hangout with friends and meet new people but she is a bit shy and in her head about a lot so she doesnt do as well as I do when we go out and she gets jealous. So many times we have gotten into a spat based on social interactions we have had with others, I dont feel like we are on the same team.

Im exhausted and I feel like I shitty boyfriend for not being able to be the support she needs. She tells me that I am the best thing thats ever happened to her but she drains me emotionally and I feel terrible for even thinking about breaking up.

Sorry this is not a long post or doesn't have much detail I aljust am not good with that