Never saw the logic nor the appeal of it. Why is being called whatever slur supposed to arouse me?

Edit: non offensive dirty talk turns me off too (especially the play by play kind, praise is just "um, plz shut up, we're fuckung here") and I've no interest in getting/learning to like it.

Thst being said (for clarification only as some people seemed to think I wanted to change that), I've had a blast reading all the coments and they've been very informative. Think now I have a better idea of both the human psyche and how it reacts to these srimuli during sex and how often liking/disliking dirty talk happens in ASD individuals other than me. THANKS A LOT! It's been so fun!